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He says he loves us... But is too broke to buy stuff for our daughter that she needs let alone see her. He can't afford…

He says he loves us... But is too broke to buy stuff for our daughter that she needs let alone see her. He can't afford insurance on his car so can't drive. Now he's drinking his problems away... He's pissed off all the time and doesn't want to deal with anything.. Do we need this in our lives? 😔

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ariliyahzihmommy3

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Мама троих детей

@sweetpea_nut, I'm going thru not too different kinda life also, I'm finacially responsible for all 3 of my kids...he doesn't buy them anything unless I tell him then he will be sort cheap get an off brand and a tiny pack no more than 30 diapers. We have been together going on 9 years and reason I ain't left is bc I have all girls and I don't want any other man around. I don't trust any man with my kids but their father. So my fear keeps me basically...settling. Just pray on it && really think what's the pros to stay what the cons to leave...if it's too many cons..move on. Iys nothing yiu can just quickly decide on. There's no pressure on time, just think. @sweetpea_nut

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Steph

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

I broke up with my bd when I was 38 weeks. I found myself trying to force him to come see his son. I would get so worked up I finally had to stop. I'm letting him dig his own grave. I just focus on my son now and be the best mommy I can be. If his dad wants to prove himself then so be it but I'm not counting on it. Ever. All I've ever heard is flaw promises and broken dreams. All lies. I'd rather be alone than with someone like that.

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Danya

Мама дочки-младенца

@ariliyahzihmommy3, @sktraum I just don't know what to do...

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Steph

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

Sounds like my situation. I don't even deal with it anymore. Stresses me out too much.

So I need to vent because I can't post anything on Facebook or Snapchat about how irritated I am. So my ex said that he…

So I need to vent because I can't post anything on Facebook or Snapchat about how irritated I am. So my ex said that he plans on staying in the military for another 4-5 years or 8-10, he was really stepping on top of his words. He might got to NC, Italy, or Alaska but he definitely wants out of California. He said since he's going to school for family law he already knows what to do and how to do it about getting custody of our daughter. He said that if I don't agree to anything he wants, I'll look bad and the court will just give him what he wants because California is a backwards liberal state and they won't favor me since I'm on disability and can't provide for my daughter. He's just pretty much saying he will get his way and I'll be screwed. The only thing going for him now is he finally got his license but still has no vehicle, no house to provide for her and assumes that the daycare on base will watch a breastfed newborn for free. I'm going in on Thursday to get the self help with the paperwork but I'm feeling super irritated that he automatically assumes he will get his way because we are a "backwards liberal state." 😡😡😡😡