He says he loves us... But is too broke to buy stuff for our daughter that she needs let alone see her. He can't afford insurance on his car so can't drive. Now he's drinking his problems away... He's pissed off all the time and doesn't want to deal with anything.. Do we need this in our lives? 😔
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I broke up with my bd when I was 38 weeks. I found myself trying to force him to come see his son. I would get so worked up I finally had to stop. I'm letting him dig his own grave. I just focus on my son now and be the best mommy I can be. If his dad wants to prove himself then so be it but I'm not counting on it. Ever. All I've ever heard is flaw promises and broken dreams. All lies. I'd rather be alone than with someone like that.
@ariliyahzihmommy3, @sktraum I just don't know what to do...
Sounds like my situation. I don't even deal with it anymore. Stresses me out too much.
@sweetpea_nut, I'm going thru not too different kinda life also, I'm finacially responsible for all 3 of my kids...he doesn't buy them anything unless I tell him then he will be sort cheap get an off brand and a tiny pack no more than 30 diapers. We have been together going on 9 years and reason I ain't left is bc I have all girls and I don't want any other man around. I don't trust any man with my kids but their father. So my fear keeps me basically...settling. Just pray on it && really think what's the pros to stay what the cons to leave...if it's too many cons..move on. Iys nothing yiu can just quickly decide on. There's no pressure on time, just think. @sweetpea_nut