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I'm such a petty bitch but I feel some type of way now that my fiancé's brother just announced that he's going to be a…

I'm such a petty bitch but I feel some type of way now that my fiancé's brother just announced that he's going to be a dad.

Background story: I am so proud to say that my fiancé has come a long way since we met. He was homeless and had absolutely nothing going for him, no future (as he puts it). We moved in together, we started our family, and he has turned his entire life around. But his family has never supported him and I think his older brother is beyond jealous. BIL and I have chatted and all he ever said was "I can't believe my little brother is going to be a dad before me, I can't believe he got his license before I did, I can't believe he is turning his life around and I'm stuck in the same place..." Why can't he just be happy for his brother, for us. We were doing so well and we were happy but then our lives started going to shit. BIL was the one who made my fiancé and I lose our apartment and become homeless (I was 30 weeks pregnant!!!). He was the one who got us both fired from our jobs. He has been sabotaging our relationship and our lives from the very beginning. Could I be wrong in thinking everything has been intentional? Maybe. But I can't help but think that he is just not a good person. And I can't help but NOT be excited about him becoming a dad.

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JessieМама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

He is not a good person if he did all that

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