Once again stuck in on my own! My OH said at the beginning of the month he is going to stop drinking, as it's not fair…

I'm used to it, and it doesn't surprise me, but still upsets me 😢 yeah think I might! Yeah at least I'll have baby to keep me company ;) haha xxx

that's what they do unfortunately mine used to say he was going out for 1 and then didn't come home till hours later, I got used to it in the end and it didn't bother me but then that's just me. bless you it is hard. Yeah pamper yourself enjoy a nice hot bath and relax and don't worry it will all change when baby is here :) @mariaelizabeth xx

Yeah he can go out, it's just when he says he won't get drunk or be late etc..then goes against his word 😩 just not dealing with being alone well atm.. he is going out tomorrow, might pamper myself or something! @rach0402 xx

I totally understand where your coming from my oh was abit like this before we had our son and it used to really annoying me but when it came close to due date he did stop drinking. but you gotta think if your oh usually goes out drinking a far bit before you were pregnant he is probably just carrying on as normal for him and he doesn't think anything about it or he is just processing everything in his own way. I know it's not easy being alone and pregnant but why don't you treat yourself in someway when he goes out? as long as he does stop nearer your due date try not to be so hard on him. @mariaelizabeth xx

Yeah I do understand where you are coming from completely tbf! @apunini still upsetting, especially when he says he will stop then doesn't even stop for one day..and hate being on my own 😞 and tbh don't have that many friends...

ofc it's not nice if a man drinks constantly etc. but you need to understand aswell men process thinga diferently then we do. they're also feeling a lot of stress, they're scared of becoming dad's aswell and while we woman get all this atention they just supposed to live they're lifes the way they was already doing? some just relieve the stress with a couple of beers and friends.. i personally enjoy when my OH goes out once every other weekend with his friends because it's healthy for him to relax and all. i understand ur frustration hun i really do, i'm constatly mad at him mostly and all but they also need a brake.. xx

Yeah my OH is like that when I have a day off work, saying that I do nothing.. It's just not fair..and they can't see it @kmcf2302 😢 my OH doesn't drive, so no idea how we going to get to the hospital...🤔

@mariaelizabeth, I was the same with my OH. It's only now that he's packed in the drinking cause we're close to the due date and I need him to be able to drive x

They honestly have no idea! They are all the same!! My OH works away so I am home alone a lot of the time with our son and he thinks I have it easy, he is under the impression I just sit at home all day long doing nothing! It's a lot harder looking after a baby 24/7 than it is going to work!

Yeah I wish they would understand! Why do we have to be the ones to have to go through EVERYTHING😡

The only thing I respect him for is leaving his bank card here..as his mate said he will buy him a couple..but still can't trust him 100% sadly 😞😞

why can't they just see how unfair it is? And show some respect?! Now he has just gone out and I'm here crying 😢 wondering what time he will even be back....

All men are twats at times!! 😡 I don't know what it is but throughout my pregnancy and since our little boy was born all we've done is argue it's so stressful and men just don't understand what we go through and how hard it is!! X

The 'dad' to my two oldest was like this, it drove me mad.