how would u deal with ur SO antagonizing a dog/puppy then out of nowhere cuz the puppy got a lil too…

What do you mean dear? Was puppy playing too rough? My puppy did that too .. You have to train the puppy to play nice. If they do anything you don't like (nipping or scratching) .. Completely break eye contact and give them no attention at all. Soon the puppy will learn to behave the way you want. They live for attention. So whatever gets them attention they will continue to do. Puppys need training.

@firsttimetarrina, he doesnt like the dog at all its his parent's dog. he was giving it attention till he pawed at him or something then out of nowhere he was beating on the dog like he had done something wrong other than playing. but its like that every time he does anything with the dog he complains about the dog barking and has so much anger towards it it scares me cuz kids r worse like wats gonna happen if one of my kids accidently hurts him u know

Thats wrong. I would have said something if I saw him beating a dog. One thing I hate most is people that mistreat animals and people that don't take care of their kids. If he doesn't like the dog then he should stay away from it and stop giving it attention. Puppies are playful and they bark if he can't handle a puppy I don't think he'd be able to handle a crying baby thats fussy or hungry. Sorry to be so harsh but I would have beat the living shit out of my husband if he randomly started to beat an animal for no reason. Same goes for my sister's boyfriends which I've done already to both of their kids dads.

That's a shame. He obviously doesn't have the patience. Hopefully he won't react the same way with a child. Although, it's wrong to lose patience dealing with something young and learning either way. Prayers for you. Unfortunately it may just be up to you to show patience and protect the babies. Try talking to him.

@babynessa, i know iv told him if he cant deal with the dog barkin how can he deal with my two kids. then today idk just makes me that more doubtful of everything. im trying to get out

@firsttimetarrina, he hasnt met my kids yet and i really dont want to introduced him to them with doubt in my mind and especially if he reacts that way

I'm sorry your having to go through this but it just sounds like he's not ready for kids. I would be scared to leave my child with anyone that can't have patients with an animal. Stay strong and do what you think is right for your kids. @mamabear91

@babynessa, yea i wouldnt feel comfortable leaving him with my kids. im tryin to get out of the situation cuz its not really good for me to begin with