Mom-shaming is so sad. Like, for real. Being a SAHM doesn't make you lazy or financially irresponsible or overly dependent on your SO. Being a working mom doesn't make you a bad mom or unable to love your kids or unable to handle parenting. Both are hard to do and both can have their benefits and drawbacks, and individual circumstances and preferences play a huge part in what makes one person able to stay at home and another able to work.