Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
How many of you Mama's to be are getting a push present? I still haven't gotten my last 2 push presents so I plan on looking for a few cheap push presents or 1 expensive push present to make up for the last 2 he didn't get me & this one😁
alright ladies I need input and info and anything you can give me on this I am a first time mother and I am coming close to the end of my pregnancy and I have a few questions about this I woke up this morning with very bad period pains I get up and use the bathroom and then lay back down then I wake up again with an upset stomach then the third time I wake up I wake up with heart burn and every since I woke up I have been feeling tightening in my stomach and every once in a while through out the day I would feel her move but not much then sometimes when I sit down I feel like I pressure type feeling in my vagina like pressure pushing down it kinda feels like my daughter is trying to push out if any of you know what is going on with me for sure plz comment plz if you don't know what is going on don't suggest that I go to the hospital I will be calling my doctors office in the morning and if he is closed I will call a different one plz help me I am trying to avoid going to the hospital and my mom wouldn't believe me anyways if I said I was in labor
My baby was well known in the Labor and delivery section for 3 days! Because I made no progress dialating. They used cervidil that softens your cervix for 12 hours (no progress) They gave me a oral pill to help start contractions and dialate ( no progress), they inserted a balloon into my cervix to open it up and even gave me a dose of pitocin (this immediately, had me contracting loke crazy! (I ended up being 4cm dialated. After taking the balloon out they just used pitocin at the highest level....(i stayed at 4cm dialated). Next step since I made no progress was to restart pitocin again (still no progress) I then ended up having to go against my birth plan and have them break my water, as soon as they broke my water, I requested my epidural before pain got to unbearable. Soon they checked me and told me I was fully dialed but wasnt all the way effaced, and baby wasnt facing the right direction. AFTER 32 hours of labor, 2 hours of pushing, I'm not the one to give up but I know when to back down, when I've lost a battle. i had ended up getting a fever of 102 that they had to treat me for while pushing . I seen I had made no progress of pushing.....my baby was only 4 pounds and I still couldn't push him out. Doctors and nurses gave me 2 options.....c section or restart your pitocin to see if contractions will push him down more. It took me 2 seconds to answer, and I went against my birth plan a 2nd time..... C-section! They began to get me ready. And added more meds to numb me. I felt the tugging and pulling (normal). They finally got this little tiny baby out, even though they even had a hard time. Then I felt PAIN! I began to cry in agony. As they rushed to give me meds to put me to sleep. End result, due to breaking my water and waiting around i ended up having a infection, baby had a scrape on head from hitting my pelvis bone.... not only that, but caring a 4lbs baby was all my body could make....my pelvis was way too small for me to even push my 4lbs little boy out. But guess what hes 4 pounds, Full Term and healthy. !
**BIRTH STORY** March 24th 1:45am. (Me & my 10yr old home sleep) got up to use the bathroom & Had my bloody show. So I text my bf who works in L.A (2 hours away/off at 330am) saying keep phone on loud she'll be here within 24 hours. 2:30am felt a slight uncomfortable pressure starting.Text my bf saying pressure is starting I'll probably be calling early am. 3:30am mild contractions starting 12 min apart. Text bf saying head down they've started. 4:10am..7 min apart starting to hurt. Crawl on floor to help (no help)...get in bath (no help). Get out..in pain. Screaming laying on bed and banging on wall...daughter wakes up freaking out. I say baby is coming. She gets me towels I was sweating trys to rub back and tell me to cry & scream in pillow lol. By this time I'm sure a few neighbors have been waken lol. 4:20 am.. 4 min apart IN HORRIBLE PAIN. I'm thinking shit my bf won't make it. I'm screaming loud, hitting my wall pulled a blind down lol laying on my side in bed rocking back and forth. Only position I could tolerate a lil. And with every contraction I lose my breathe and have to tighten my muscles/push. 4:32am 2 min apart. I'm dying. By now I'm sure my.complex thought I was being murdered. My daughter is there still in shock but helpful thank goodness. Told her to get dressed. She says ok but i dont want to go to school im staying with u lol. Ok girl lol. 4:44am as I'm fighting screaming thru a contraction my water POPS alllll over the place like a water balloon and I think "oh fck shes coming". I cry out my water just broke to my daughter call Nana on your phone. I call my bf muffled screamed my waterrrr just broke I'm calling 911 and going. He says something like he's 30 min away but I hung up lol & called 911 (4:45am). They answer and I yell/cry "shes coming!!"she said who's coming??! I said the babyyy, she said on youre pregnant. Etc she stays on phone saying breathe, get in middle of bed all that good stuff. I hear so many sirens THANK GOD. 4:51am about 8 paramedics appear in my room like angels lol. I hang up w/ 911. They ask questions idk I keep saying I gotta push. They say no don't push let's sit up & get in chair so we can head to hospital. I keep screaming I can't move I gotta push. They say nooo. I say yesss lol. I say I can't breathe. They give me oxygen. I say imma push I feel her coming down!...one paramedic was like "Amber don't.... Oh ummm is that hair?! OK she's gotta push get towels get towels. My daughter gives them towels and goes talk to officers in living room. 1 push I can feel 'ring of fire' and head out. I can breathe a lil better. 2nd push. Still in. 3rd hard push I feel her body slid out and pain subside. SHE'S HERE... 5:02 AM born on Mommy's bed.
steph·Мама четверых детей, беременна
Just keep an eye on it if u get less movements ect or feel any diff then get checked over xx
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