well as a normal husband that just had a baby. . he sleeps through the night while I get FUSTRADED to put baby back to sleep and he just oh lay her down she will sleep on her own. which she wont.. then I have to cook.. been doing that since I got home from the hospital. then he complains the baby needs more food when she doesn't. she's eating 2oz at two weeks and that should be plenty. . he doesn't realize that deep down inside I feel like I can't do this (being a mom) and ugh.. he just doesn't see things I'm my shoes. and plus he said he would help out with the baby.. and he isn't doing much.. @eryka616
My boyfriend was the same way it takes time for them to understand and it sounds like you have postpartum depression like me, but you can do it... It's hard taking care of a baby feeling alone but try to talk to other moms and just know it'll be okay