Deep down inside I don't feel like a mom yet.. I thought the moment she was here I would feel different but I dont.. I don't know if it's PPD or its just me being weird. .
side note. I have had a dam headache all day and it won't go away.
It's hormones and exhaustion. It's an emotional combination. It should get better:)
@elenalee, I hope it hormones. . because sometimes when she cries or won't go Back to sleep. I start crying..
I was the same way.... Trust me the feelings will come. You will feel like a mom to your baby soon. The head over heals in love feelings aren't instant for everyone, for me it takes a little time. Maybe it's shock or tiredness or hormones? I dunno.
Being a mommy isn't a feeling. When we got pregnant we all of a sudden didn't feel like we wanted to take better care of ourselves or not want to have a drink(or whatever you did before you got pregnant) we just did it. That's like being a mommy, I would love to sleep in or eat warm food and take long showers lol I'd love to use the restroom alone again too lmfao but I'm a mommy and my love made me realize this is life now. And even though I would like to do certain things that people without kids can do, I wouldn't change it for anything. Don't wait for the feeling or sudden change, just keep loving her and the love baby gives you will be the feeling you've been waiting for. @polancobaby my opinion though
How old is your baby?