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Kaylena Greer
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Okay moms I'm needing some help. I don't have anyone to really talk to so I need some advice. I think I may have…

Okay moms I'm needing some help. I don't have anyone to really talk to so I need some advice. I think I may have postpartum depression. I had my son almost 2 months ago. And I also have a daughter who will be 2 in a month. I feel like I'm not attached to my daughter like I was before, I catch my self getting angry with her over small things when she's just being a toddler. I was never like this before. With my son I catch my self doing the same thing. There's nights I just cry about everything feeling like a bad mom. I just don't know what to do. On top of all this finding out my mom has lung cancer last month. It's been a rough couple of days dealing with everything. 😭

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roxell

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I think maybe you're just stressed and overwhelmed?Having and taking care of a newborn/infant is difficult,and taking care of a 2 yr old is also difficult,so both together can cause stress and being overwhelmed,which results in anger,not being patient,being easily irritated,etc.You're not a bad mom,maybe you just don't know how to juggle things,or sores your duties and time evenly,or you forget to sit back and relax and keep your cool.Many reasons.Try to take some time to think what is really bothering you,what's the source?Is it actually the children,or is it being overwhelmed with motherly duties?Is it your mother and the sadness?Is there anyone to help you out physically?and anyone there for you emotionally? Try to remember that they're you're lovely children,just beginners and don't mean to make you upset.Always tell yourself to be understanding of them,try reading up on their development which would give you a better sense of why they may act a certain way and do certain things and how they are progressing individually and what their temperaments are.Try to tell yourself to be calm,talk calmy,be slow to speak,and be patient.For me,prayer really helps no matter the situation,you can do that too.Dont lose confidence either,I'm sure you're a great mom who is doing her best,and you can overcome this obstacle!Even though it seems hard,you can do it=)

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