My fiance is upset at me because even though were having a baby together and plan on getting married…
My fiance is upset at me because even though were having a baby together and plan on getting married soon, I wont let him look at me when im fully naked or let him actually see my vagina. It just makes me too nervous and embarrassed and sends me into a panic. Hes mad that im going to ask that my lady bits be shielded from view when im pushing and that i dont want him down there where he could see the baby being born. Even though hes stated that he doesnt want to see anything down there while im pushing. Am I being unreasonable?
Summer·
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No. I'm the same way. My fiancé understands
Raven·
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mine usually understands but hes been mentioning it more often lately and i dont know what to do @katietay34
C.·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I was the same way with my husband and then the doctor needed his help delivering so he had to get all up in there haha I didn't care then because I just wanted to get my baby out safely. I still value my privacy. my body is not my husband's property and I do not have to over share if I am not comfortable. same goes for you. You should never feel pressured to step into a place where you are uncomfortable. What your fiance needs to understand is that in order for you to be able to open up more, you need to feel secure and safe and that's not going to happen by hin pushing you.
Kedra·
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That was a fear I had at the beginning of our relationship but I'd rather open to someone I love Bc guess what there's gonna ppl that u don't even know looking at u down there
Kadie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
I'm the same way girl! he's seen what I have obviously but I'm not one to lay there naked in front of him with all the lights on just for whatever reason lol I'm hoping to have some coverage when I give birth but not only because of him but my mom and sister are in the room as well. I'm just a private person. I'm more nervous about being all out in the open for birth than the pain or anything else lol
Katelyn·
Мама дочки-младенца
this is just MY opinion and its very different from the others...
you're having his baby..and getting married..maybe I'm just old school but when you have sex you become one..so nothing is private, you should be able to be open enough if this is going to be your forever partner. While youre insecure about something you can't change whether its the way it looks or how it'll look when giving birth like you can't help that, that's life. its supposed to look the way it does. Who's ever delivering your baby is going to see a close up and theyre a stranger I'm sure. at the end of the day..its your choice tho.
klg0123·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
only telling you this cuz I was the same way with my first and I want you to be prepared- your legs are going to be up in the air (by your ears) and spread wide open when you are pushing. its not like in the movies where there's a sheet over you. They're won't be any concealing of your lady bits so if you really don't want him to see then just make sure that he stays by your head and it'll be fine. i kept trying to be modest and the nurses were all like "now's not the time to be shy, honey" lol. it wasn't too bad though, don't stress it.