Idk why I keep trying to give my child father chances when he does nothing but throw me under the…

Sometimes you gotta let go. If he comes back better than before then you are better for it

Stop. Do not give him chances when he doesn't deserve them. You don't always have to be nice

girl im in the SAME boat. Smh on baby #2 now with his bum ass..... ive Def learned my lesson. I think. it's just so hard to let go....

Baby can have a mom and dad, but you don't have to put up with his shit

I've been trying... And I think my main problem is me thinking he'll get better but not at all ... so idk why I put myself through this @2queenbee9

And you are exactly right... I keep telling myself that and putting in my head why I'm better off without him by thinking of all the horrid things he's done @babes101116

Yes. Do not forget the horrid things he has done. People do not change that quickly or easily

I totally agree ... I think it's because when you live someone and have a child sometimes you feel like you have to settle but you don't its all a mind and heart thing @mdomke22

Guys get comfortable and think "ohh she ain't going nowhere" sometimes you gotta throw them off. Put your foot down and stand up for yourself. Once he realizes how strong you are he will finally realize he messed up.

Right! And that's exactly how it is now... but I feel like once I truly put my foot down there won't even be any space for him in my life but maybe that's good that's what I probably need to do because I'm going in circles right now @2queenbee9

Yes. and truly your child will still have her parents you will just havr to learn to co exist and respects each others space. It's hard but possible