ohhh ...no honey .. we can't let someone have that much control over us! I've been there with my ex husband and how I got over it was 1. enrolled in shcool 2. started walking and ended up losing 20lbs and 3. start showing that ass wipe that his actions had consequences.
I have low e self esteem and. I told him it stops now and he keeps saying sorry but it's not helping I still feel worthless and like I should be alive @vicky810 v @mommy1987 m @bonniesue
well guess what ..he keeps doing it cause he knows your not going make any moves and u need to for your mental stability .. and also @bonniesue is right I would go seek help ... hell I'm on medication too ... but just because u go seek that help doesn't mean that is ok to be disrespected! @katelynn
I got help when I was younger and they made me feel worse about myself I over dosed on pills in 2014 so I won't take them anymore @vicky810 v @bonniesue
well u must do something to help yourself... u have to! I know exactly how u feel ... it's stuff that I've been through I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy... . so u must do something ! even if it costs u to be selfish ..... please do something... u can inbox me if u want to talk anytime ... and that was then it's a different year now go somewhere else and see what they can do for u .... tell them about your over dose and everything else...your talking to someone that knows your pain honey ... I go through it everyday ..it has gotten better though recently last year.. it paralyze me I couldn't drive anymore or stay by myself ...so I understand @katelynn
he always said how he would never hurt me like my ex's then he does i am so hurt from it to were I don't know were to turn he says he won't do it again and I. scared he will we have a. baby girl almost 5 months old and I don't understand why people cheat like why what's the point to it :/ @vicky810
so your telling me he might of had a baby on u??? I know that hurts very badly ! and people really don't need a reason to cheat😏 those that do especially when they're married have no moral or value... that's not the type of person u want that's not even the type you wanna be friends with 😵 I don't know u and all but I really wish u would've gotten yourself together mentally first before marriage or going into any type relationship... at least enough not to depend solely on his love...
I have talked to him a lot today he was crying in never seen him cry and I was crying I told him if I ever make him feel I don't want sex to tell me bc sometimes I have reason so I said as long as he don't do it again we can work through this but if he does it again we will either go out for help or I will be gone and he agreed to it so I hope he will live up to his word bc it hurts so much to be cheated on @vicky810
well that was good !! I'm glad u had a breakthrough... and I hope so too !! but mean what u say and say what u mean!! cause people don't take u seriously if your are just full of "hot air" and if u ever need to talk just inbox me don't hesitate ...😊 @katelynn
thank you so much and thank you for talking to me I was crying and didn't know were to turn we even picked out the conusler if it happens bc he was the guy that married us which is also someone that has known me since I was 3 years old @vicky810
Victoria·
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hit him over the head with a skillet!
Victoria·
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maybe u should test it out and see how he takes it! get your flirt on😏
katelynn·
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I don't think I could I don't like to anyone 😭@vicky810
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😞
katelynn·
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it's killing me on the inside 😭 I just wish I was not alive sometimes bc everything screws up @vicky810
Bonnie·
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Aw sweetie. Have you confronted him? Don't just sit there and be miserable. You're better than that.
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ohhh ...no honey .. we can't let someone have that much control over us! I've been there with my ex husband and how I got over it was 1. enrolled in shcool 2. started walking and ended up losing 20lbs and 3. start showing that ass wipe that his actions had consequences.
Victoria·
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he knew I was ate up with low self-esteem... and he ran with that! thinking I wasn't going anywhere or was never gonna get on my feet...
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and what I see from your photos your to cute for bullshit!
katelynn·
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I have low e self esteem and. I told him it stops now and he keeps saying sorry but it's not helping I still feel worthless and like I should be alive @vicky810 v @mommy1987 m @bonniesue
Bonnie·
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Could you look into therapy? This is more serious than him flirting. You need more confidence and to learn your worth.
Victoria·
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well guess what ..he keeps doing it cause he knows your not going make any moves and u need to for your mental stability .. and also @bonniesue is right I would go seek help ... hell I'm on medication too ... but just because u go seek that help doesn't mean that is ok to be disrespected! @katelynn
katelynn·
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I got help when I was younger and they made me feel worse about myself I over dosed on pills in 2014 so I won't take them anymore @vicky810 v @bonniesue
Alexis Joseph·
I left my husband .. he'd been doing it since I was two months plus other bullshit . I got tired of it after my daughter was finally born .
Victoria·
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well u must do something to help yourself... u have to! I know exactly how u feel ... it's stuff that I've been through I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy... . so u must do something ! even if it costs u to be selfish ..... please do something... u can inbox me if u want to talk anytime ... and that was then it's a different year now go somewhere else and see what they can do for u .... tell them about your over dose and everything else...your talking to someone that knows your pain honey ... I go through it everyday ..it has gotten better though recently last year.. it paralyze me I couldn't drive anymore or stay by myself ...so I understand @katelynn
Victoria·
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I've been suffering with this since the age of 14
katelynn·
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he always said how he would never hurt me like my ex's then he does i am so hurt from it to were I don't know were to turn he says he won't do it again and I. scared he will we have a. baby girl almost 5 months old and I don't understand why people cheat like why what's the point to it :/ @vicky810
Victoria·
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so your telling me he might of had a baby on u??? I know that hurts very badly ! and people really don't need a reason to cheat😏 those that do especially when they're married have no moral or value... that's not the type of person u want that's not even the type you wanna be friends with 😵 I don't know u and all but I really wish u would've gotten yourself together mentally first before marriage or going into any type relationship... at least enough not to depend solely on his love...
Victoria·
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@katelynn,
katelynn·
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I have talked to him a lot today he was crying in never seen him cry and I was crying I told him if I ever make him feel I don't want sex to tell me bc sometimes I have reason so I said as long as he don't do it again we can work through this but if he does it again we will either go out for help or I will be gone and he agreed to it so I hope he will live up to his word bc it hurts so much to be cheated on @vicky810
Victoria·
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well that was good !! I'm glad u had a breakthrough... and I hope so too !! but mean what u say and say what u mean!! cause people don't take u seriously if your are just full of "hot air" and if u ever need to talk just inbox me don't hesitate ...😊 @katelynn
katelynn·
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thank you so much and thank you for talking to me I was crying and didn't know were to turn we even picked out the conusler if it happens bc he was the guy that married us which is also someone that has known me since I was 3 years old @vicky810
Victoria·
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you're very welcome 😊😊 and that's even better!! ...praying everything works out with u ... remember I'm here if u need to talk ... @katelynn