I'm due in just over nine weeks time and me and the babies father have split up after been together 5 year I don't no what to do I still love him but he is been right funny with me it's stressing me out so much he hasn't even asked me once how me and baby are
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@sophielou, try not to take it out on the baby, or speak to your midwife about how you are feeling, as it could cause you to get post natal depression & that's not fair on either of you! I'm going to be a single mum, I decided to put my baby first and not get stressed out so asked 'the dad' for a break, not heard from him since and that was way back in February so just proves to me he isn't bothered!
hope ur ok.. i can always meet u for a chat and u can meet baby Hettie then :)
my partner was an arse and a real arse at that. long story. message me anytime xx @sophielou
Its not the babies fault hun, ive been in this place and u have to carry on for the baby, she didnt ask for any of this to happen just like u didnt the problem is him, so he needs to sort himself out and like @beckie88 said focus on u and getting ready for baby to come along, in time things change and a baby can rock the most stable and rock hard relationships but its how u work together to get through it or not, its so easy for men to walk away and leave us standing pregnant i sometimes wish i was a man to actually understand what goes on in there minds xx
I'm trying but he is making me resent the baby before she is even born
Maybe focus on you & baby for now and see if things change when baby arrives x
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
my baby daddy punched me in my nose twice. All because the phone he has I GAVE IT TO HIM! Its MyOld Phone And he been talking to this girl and so i said give me my phone back! I didnt give it to you for that reason. And i got it and he was trying to take it back and he hit me .
I am so upset! Went for my 33 week checkup and they told me I have 2 stds! I have not been with anyone other than my sons dad and he says he has been faithful to me I have been crying all morning!
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
babies are there for life! unfortunately men are not always a guarantee , maybe he just needs space sometimes things can get to much and they just need a break think of all the good things meet up with supportive friends and family