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lydia
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I'm annoyed right now. so my hubby comes in the room asking me of he should let his 2 daughters mom see them. OK mind u…

I'm annoyed right now. so my hubby comes in the room asking me of he should let his 2 daughters mom see them. OK mind u all she has been M.I.A for 3 months. no call no nothing. she had got her other 2 girl taken away from her. I'm not one to over step so I told him u do what u want. I can only say how I feel. and I feel like she shouldn't because just cuz the other kids got taken doesn't mean u stop talking to ur other kids that are older. I don't think it's right we do everything, and all of a sudden summer is over and bam she is back trying to be a mom again?!? like how is that even right or fair for the girls. now idk what he plans on doing but I told him that's up to u not me. if it were up to me I would tell her to take us to court since even when she did see them on the weekends she wasn't even picking them up on time and would have others take care of then when she was supposed to be with them. I just don't get it. me a mom of one 10yr old already I would be damn if I missed day to see her or call her. I don't get how parents do that! I just don't get it. maybe it's not for me to get. but still that's her kids why not see them any chance u had??

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lyds

lydiaМама сына (10 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

@camdens_mommy, yeah he had to fight to get them outta foster care once she got them taken away 2 yrs ago and ever since they been living with us.they call me mom and everything. I don't mind cuz I tears them as if they were mine, I wish their mom was a better person and be someone the girls could count on. but she just used to get them when she would have family intown. things like that. I don't want the girls to feel that way about us either which is why I told him u do what u want because they are his kids. and I don't want them to ever feel like we're pulling them away from her. I keep telling him to let go to court for them but we don't know where she lives or have any info on her in order to do that. so we haven't done anything yet but I feel we need to.

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camdens_mommy

Erin

Sounds like you guys are the primary care givers, so you most definitely have a say. It's a tough spot... You don't want them to blame you guys one day for potentially keeping them apart, but it's very confusing for them! I have a 13 year old step daughter, mom hasn't seen her in 3 years and if she tried to come around I would say hell no! See you in court 👌

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