Okay so my daughter is almost four years old and she's being such a bully to ME of all people... Like she calls me fat and throws stuff at me... And I'm about to have her sister in a couple weeks... Is this why she's acting out? Today she threw a Cinderella doll at me and hit me right in my nose and it actually made me cry. Idk what to do :(
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Play therapy will give you and her time to connect in a way she will understand. And therapist and yourself will watch her play and when she acts up or starts to hit of ignore you than that is where you and the therapist will start to dig deeper and figure out the problem! This is an hour session like three days a week.
My daughter is 4.5 and I've been talking about feelings since she was 3. It takes work and time but my kids understand that we respect adults and we don't throw things or hit or call names. They're not perfect and still get time outs but I know why they act out
@happyamy, she's had such a good life. She's usually a happy child. The only thing I can think of is she's about to become a big sister. And I think she's feeling like she's being left out or something.
@babes101116, she is 4 years old. She doesn't understand the concept of sitting down and talking about feelings.
Yes! I've talked to her, and put her in time out. But just now when she had did that I'd had enough I spanked her little butt. Especially cause just today she's throw three things at me. And when I ask her why she's doing it and being a meanie she says idk I just am. And gives me tons of attitude.
Take a look at your history and figure out what could be the cause of her acting out like this....children act out when something in the past still affects them. Try to take her to play therapy, this would be a great start for her, ask about this at the DSHS they will give you more information! Our minds are so complex and sometimes acting out is the only way to express the way we feel inside. I will tell you this right now...it is not the way you are raising her and don't blame yourself for her behavior, your little girl is trying to work through something and you have to be patient and work on it with her. Please I advise you to find more information about play therapy your child will benefit from this and your life will become so much easier.
Have you talked to her? Asked her why she's being so mean? You don't treat her like that, so why does she do it to you?
nah, I'm sorry but discipline is the answer to this. cause words or not working
@x0x0katielove, This is a called for disciplinary actions.