Need advise moms! So our son is 6 days old today and my husbands cousin which i do not care for wants me to come to a bbq and gifts for Princeton. I dont want to go because i feel he is to small for him to be around a lot of ppl. Plus I know there will be drinking and they smoke outside. I dont want princeton to be around there and i dont want him to be passed around. My husband is begging me to go. He wont come til later so it will be me with his mom around all his ppl who dont care for me. Would you go and have you husband set boundaries before hand or not go at all? I dont have the energy to get into it with anyone.