My SO doesn't act excited or enthusiastic about baby #2 at all. i ask why and he says "Im a guy. I don't really get excited over cute baby stuff like you do" But with our first he always acted excited and interested. :( and he's been looking up girls on instagram and acting distant towards me :(
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@geekymomma13, yeah my family is 6hrs and my mom is 10 :( I feel ya! that's exactly what my husband says and I'm more or a stresser/worrier than he is! And I'm still excited haha I definitely feel like I'm doing it on my own as well :/
@1sttimemummy, all of my family is 4 hrs away. I end up calling my gma, I'm close to her and not so much my mom. my fiance says he's stressed and that's why he isn't excited, I worry too but it doesn't take away from my excitement. it kinda feels like I'm doing this on my own.
My boyfriend wasn't excited at all and I would get mad he would come to my appointments and not even care to look at the ultrasounds but the first time I took him in the room and he heard the heart beat everything changed . Hopefully he comes around for you
@geekymomma13, it's hard! It makes me not want to share things with him. I'm close with my mom but, she lives far away and I'll find myself sharing news with her first because she'll actually be excited. I finally talked to him about it and he denies being less excited but, it still doesn't change the way I see it :(
@1sttimemummy, I'm going through the exact same thing. I wish he would be excited, it makes me want to not show mine
My ex never seemed interested or concerned or acted like he could give two shits about my baby either. And it really bothered and hurt me.
Mine is the same way and it's really hurtful because this is our first together. He has a daughter with another women and he was excited for that but, not really at all with ours... :(
maybe once he goes to see a ultrasound or when you start showing it will kick in.. men are weird lol.. hope things get better
Mine is so interested in redit....ugh I guess men just need a break from stress and reality even now and than?
girl same thing with mine, he is excited and anxious about baby number 2 but I know he looks at other girls through t.v. and Instagram and it don't bother me cause at the end of the day always know there coming home to you and your guys baby and nobody else hun just stay strong