any other moms have the feeling of just not being connected to your baby? My little girl has been posterior and sat in my back most of my pregnancy so I haven't really gotten the chance to bond through movements or having a baby bump until recently. I'm just starting to feel and really look pregnant and I'm close to the end. don't get me wrong, I am very excited to be her mom (we did plan her). I'm just not sure if what I'm going through is "normal" or not.
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@happyamy, @showersoverflowers, thanks ladies! I know that I am very happy to have her in my life and I'm wanting her to be here more then ever, I just think it's finally starting to sink in that I am in fact really having a baby (we miscarried the month before we found out we were expecting again) so it really is like a shock. you've both made me feel 1000X better.
It happens when your a first time mother...you simply never loved or had a child of your own...
I knew I was pregnant but couldn't wrap my head around the fact that I was having another baby. I was almost shocked when I delivered. I'm very bonded with baby now though! However I do have PPD just because I was not adjusted to the idea of another baby but I do not resent or feel distant to my baby at all
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
my baby daddy's ex wife works at the hospital I'm having my daughter she is just a cleaning lady she tell me they let her move the babies around I'm scared this women will take my baby she even tells me if I have my baby early she could see her ever day .. my doctor only delivers at this hospital I don't know what to do . this is why I don't want to have my baby early ..
I've had 2 losses that we know of (I stopped testing before 8 weeks after a while until I started on hormone treatmemts) and I've had two successful pregnancies. my babies mean the world to me but this last pregnancy was so disconnected compared to the first. I thought there was something wrong with me but after talking with my doc, she reassured me it was okay! she even said she went through a similar situation with one of her pregnancies