I need help/advice. My problem is that the man I'm with, I'm going to call him "D", doesn't seem to wanna help me being there is a possibility that the baby isn't his. My mom seems to want nothing to do with me either. D just pushes the baby and I to the back burner. I don't really have anywhere else to good else I'd leave so I could get my thoughts together as well as let him figure out if he really does want this or not. The other guy, M, seems to wanna help with the baby. I don't wanna raise him on my own but I wanna make it work with D. Please give this mama advice. I want the best advice for my baby's sake.
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if you had sex with M on that date than you would be 20 weeks.
The worst thing you could do is show a man that you have no dignity and it really seems like D. has no respect for women in general. Also if he is rejecting the fact that his childish ass got you knocked up than he isn't worthy of even seeing this wonderful baby you are bringing to this world let alone own up to it. I honestly feel like you should be on your own and just love yourself and your baby and think about what is best for both of you. Hope this helps!
M around April 26-28. D-about 2weeks after that. I am 19 almost 20 weeks. Getting DNA test already.
I've already tried and he just pushes it off. over and over again.
may I ask why you are confused as to who the father is? when was it when you had sex with each one? how far along? just talk deeply with D. tell him how much you want this family with him and express your feelings hun. and get a DNA test when baby is born
for your baby, you go with the man that is willing to support the baby no matter who the daddy is.
Trigger. Lost baby
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