venting. . .Ever feel under appreciated. . I sure have lately. . My husband is a firefigter/pastor/welder. I work 4 days a week at an insurance company. . our 2 yr old son seems like he would rather be with everyone but me lately. . I'm 33 weeks pregnant. . I work all day from 8-5 and last night we had a football game we went to and I hurt so bad after. I asked for a massage and I got a halfway one because he was tired. he's gone every 3rd day well he was off from the fd yesterday. I worked all day then the game and today they were haveing having a fundraiser from 9-1 then he goes back to the fd 2mrw. It's like he's not happy with me and i know that's not true because I know he loves me but sometimes I feel 2nd place to the fire department.
oh i know i had a dad th at was a fire man and my hubbies been it but it seems lately he's idk
Aww I'm sure your 2 yr old loves you.I am a teacher for 2 yr olds and they are still developing and learning in life,and sometimes they're just funny little people lol.As for your husband,I'm sure he just loves his job and is dedicated and tired and he wants to help people,especially being a pastor.As a pastor,and a man of God in general,he is a head of the household and is in charge of taking care of the finances and be the protector of the family.He may not be remembering to give you attention from being so focused on everything else.I'm sure he loves you,as Jesus loves the church.Pray about it and give it to God.Also,talk to him about it,and also pray together.I hope it all gets better,and I know that God has good plans for you! Jeremiah 29:11
I know he means well it's just hard on me because I never get a break. I'm not trying to sound ugly but sometimes I need a break from everything my job my son just to have me time and I don't get it. So then I get overwhelmed and being a pastor's wife I really can't talk to alot of people about my problems. the pastor wife I do have to talk to i don't want her thinking I'm always a negative person but other then God and my hubby I don't have anyone I can talk to. so I'm a person that keeps a lot in until I just lose it and I feel like I'm almost there and I hate getting that way.