Really annoyed at the moment. My sister who can't even be bothered to speak to me and who hasn't seen me since I was 6…

Really annoyed at the moment. My sister who can't even be bothered to speak to me and who hasn't seen me since I was 6 weeks pregnant. Has the cheek to text my mother asking if her aunty can come see the baby when he's born. Her aunty is nothing to do with me we have different dads! I don't know what's annoyed me more the fact she's asked my mum the grandmother of our child! Instead of me the MUM of the baby and my partner. Or the fact she assumed just it's okay! Her aunty seen my other sisters kids once when they were newborn and hasn't bothered with them since. I think she just wants to be nosey as she doesn't really know me and my partner and seen me a few times when I was growing up and that's it. I'm not comfortable at all with her seeing my son as I dont know her that well. Me and my partner have both agreed on who we will tell when I go into labour and what the plans will be after he's here for visiting. Just close friends and close family. Feel like some of them aren't respecting our wishes