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i need your opinion ; I may or may not have over reacted and want to see if anyone else would've…

i need your opinion ; I may or may not have over reacted and want to see if anyone else would've reacted as i did.

So my husband and i got hooked up with century link & the bundle came with a house phone included. My husband had called to ask me why we didn't receive the modem from UPS today " like i knew" and while i was on the phone with him, i dialed his number on the house phone " thinking he'd say hold on someones calling or a weird numbers is calling" instead he says nothing , right. so i tell him I'll see him when he gets off work. As soon as we hang up , he calls the house phone back an i answer. He stays quiet and then hangs up!

So im like wthell why didn't he say nothing or at least block the number If he was gonna call back and not talk.

MIGHT I ADD THAT HIS EX HAS BEEN CALLING OFF RANDOM NUMBERS!!

So i call back an ask him why he didn't realize it was me, he acted like he didn't know what i was talking about so i got mad an said just now why didn't you say anything when you called?! He said "what that was you"? i told him " yeah, i thought you'd mention something bout a random number calling while we were on the phone" but he said oh cuz i didn't kno. who it was.. That to me was a lame excuse so i got mad an confused an said "why he called it back and not said anything" he started yelling at me saying " why are you even calling me, why don't you just say the phone on" i just thought I'd surprise him with the phone being on. i feel like he's wanting to hear from her ya know, an he starts yelling at me like i did something wrong. Yes i thought it was weird an immature for him to call a number back and not talk!! What if it weren't me calling an it was her!! He would be playing phone games... RIGHT?? i figure when we got married, an have a baby he would leave that behaviour from the past in the past and grow up outta that immature crap .. and HE USED TO CHEAT ON ME WITH HER, HE USED TO TALK TO GIRLS ON CRAIGSLIST BEHIND MY BACK.. YES I'M HAVING A HARD TIME FORGIVING HIM AN TRUSTING HIM ...

IDK, to me that was weird!! What y'all think?? Did i over react or am i semi right???

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indiamommy16

Tani ❤️

If it's not trust it's no rel

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indiamommy16

Tani ❤️

relationship. Unless you truly forgive his past and move on.

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lovebeingmommy

Ally

I would've thought something is up too. and you can't marry someone and have kids to try to change someone. so just be careful . and confront him with your fears.

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mamabear.7

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@fabulous_t, Yes your right. I've forgiven him and trusted him until he started doing things behind my back..

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mamabear.7

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@allyk.xmommy, I MARRIED HIM BECAUSE HE PROMISED HE CHANGED! Not because i wanted to change him.. i gave him another 2nd chance!! Nothing but bullcrap behavior

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del_1512483459_ada_1023

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Would you ever leave him? I don't think you're over reacting, you know something is up and he's acting like there isn't. Go with your gut feeling, in my opinion I don't think he's going to change anytime soon. He did it before and he's repeating it now, why should you have to suffer??? @mamabear777 that's not love.

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mamabear.7

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leaving him is my ultimate plan!! Sounds conniving however I'm waiting until he gets the income taxes because he asked me not to work and i didn't, i stayed home with my children which i don't mind but i have a life too.. Ya know I'm always with my children!! i would like a break but i don't trust him alone with my baby cause he had threatened to take off with him..

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mamabear.7

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@aferg_1023,

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del_1512483459_ada_1023

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I think it's best for you and your kids to get out of that situation ASAP. @mamabear777 if you want you can message me and we can talk if you gotta vent.

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lovebeingmommy

Ally

@mamabear777, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to upset you hun. I'm just saying cheaters don't change. my mother did the same thing. was with my dad and he promised he would change. and think he got worse

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mamabear.7

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@allyk.xmommy, i am just upset in general, your ok sweetie. Your just trying to help

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lovebeingmommy

Ally

@mamabear777, good luck. and i pray that things get better for yoh

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