so last night my actual Dr checked me I was 2 cm and 80% than today I went it two people check me and said I was 4 really close to 5cm and 90% than I just went the girl said I wasn't even 1 cm and 40% and my cervix was barley getting soft. so I asked for another midwife to come in to check me and the midwife asked what my pain was I said 8 she says let's save that that's a little dramatic and doesn't even check me and sent me home . if it wasn't for my actions affecting my husbands job I would of went off. I understand if someone messed up mistakes happen but don't tell me I'm being dramatic when you can't tell the pain I'm in and don't not check me because you believe the one girl. when 4 people have checked me and all of them are different. the fucking joy of the military hospital... I will be calling tomorrow to complain about the midwife tonight. I'm upset with the two people who said I was 4 but I didn't know one was a student and the other had only been working for a little over a year if I would of known that I would of asked for someone else to check too
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which Military hospital? I went to Madigan and loved it. I'm sorry the midwife was such a troll
to be honest @mrsbrazeal I think their attitude may have something to do with your age. nurses tend to be assholes when it comes to mom's to be under 25. now I'm not by all means bashing young mom's but they treat young mom's like they made a mistake even if the baby was planned... such judgemental assholes
@nightdaughter, I did they said there was no one else and the second nurse the really rude one didn't even check me. and the guy who checked me was a very tall could of probably held a basketball in one hand. so unless my vag just like him and ate his fingers and didn't like the girl idk 😂
@proudmomma2016, if it wasn't as the hospital on base and it couldn't affect my husbands job I would of went off. but I'm calling them tomorrow to complain. and she said if I didn't have him already I wasn't even having real contractions
I agree. unless someone with the world's smallest hands told you 5cm they are ridiculous. I would have 100% asked for a second opinion
@nightdaughter, that's what I'm saying! like yes it was a huge stab in the heart thinking my baby was coming really soon to them say ha just kidding. I understand mistakes happen but there is no need to be rude and I think any mom would be upset about something like thay
wow... I mean I can understand a cm difference but going from almost 5 to barely 1? like seriously wtf
@babizehm16, evans in colorado