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Sarah
Sarah
Мама сына-младенца

I hate to say this but I don't enjoy breastfeeding at all. I know it has great benefits and all the…

I hate to say this but I don't enjoy breastfeeding at all. I know it has great benefits and all the nutrients for baby but I just feel like a giant milk machine. It feels like he's latched onto my boob all day and I can't do anything else. I literally dread it every time I feed him and j don't wanna feel this way! I really don't want to sound selfish bc I love my son and want the best for him but I can't help how I feel. When I talk about starting him on formula my mom tells me I'm not putting my son first and I'm self centered. Is it wrong for me to feel this way??? 😔

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bentleyandbrinleysmomma

Ramea

I feel the same exact way! I do love breastfeeding and bonding with him, but I dread every time I need to drop everything I'm doing just for him to be latched for hours. I can't do anything! And I can't always pump enough for a bottle so I give him formula and he throws it up and I feel bad!

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jazmin805

jazmin

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

stop stressing...hes your son not your moms so thekrfor do whatever however. ..he will still get nutrients from you kr a bottle. ..if you feel that bad well its pricier but theirs organic formula. ..you will fell better doing what makes you both happy.

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adrianliam

Sarah

Мама сына-младенца

Thank god I'm not the only one that feels this way. It makes me sad bc feeding is supposed to be a bonding experience but I just get in a bad mood every time I have to feed him and I know he feels the frustration coming from me ☹️ blahhh @bentleysmomma

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kreeblim

Dj

Мама дочки-младенца

I pumped for this reason. Got the breastmilk but I wasn't forced to stop everything to feed her.

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adrianliam

Sarah

Мама сына-младенца

Your right! I need to do what's best for us @jazmin805

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adrianliam

Sarah

Мама сына-младенца

I have been trying to pump but I don't produce enough to save any so I still end up sitting at home pumping and then having to give the milk right back to him ☹️@kreeblim

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chiquitaanita

Anita

Мама подростков

it sounds like it's not right for you. I feel like it's better for you and your baby to feed him in a way you can be happy about and enjoy your time with him rather than dreading every time he needs to eat

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mrsreneau

Kayla

Мама дочки-младенца

I had the same problem. I switched to formula with two pumps a day. Feeding time is much more enjoyable for both baby and myself. A happy mama makes for a happy baby.

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