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Can I ask a serious question ? I have a friend who says she miscarrried about 4/5 years ago. She…

Can I ask a serious question ? I have a friend who says she miscarrried about 4/5 years ago. She said it was a boy and named him Braxton. She posts about him a lot on fb. And she still cries etc. I'm just wondering if these are her true feelings or all for attention because she is one to do anything and everything for attention. I know losing a child is hard but is this usual ? And if so how do I help her. ?

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sparklymama

Autumn

everyone's process is different I could see this if she was far along and or if she's struggled with conception since then... people can begin to fixate when this happens

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littlemedranos

Edna🌻

Мама сына-младенца

Loosing a child is the hardest thing on earth I had a miscarriage a healthy pregnancy right after that and I still struggle coping with it just be supportive when your child dies a piece of you dies

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royalty

Nikita

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@sparklymama, I've know she says she has pcos. I mean if she's serious I want to help but I'm just not sure. >.<

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novaskyy

Arii

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

Yes it's normall I lost my daughter three years ago and posted about it a lot I kinda backed off and now keep them to myself but everyone's process is different I have a friend who lost hers almost two years ago and she post about her daughter everyday even tho her daughter passed three hours after birth because her mother was hit and tboned in s car accident from a construction truck

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royalty

Nikita

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@mrs.medrano, I understand losing a child is hard. My mother lost my baby brother and even had to give birth to a still born. I just was wondering because if she needs help I want to help.

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royalty

Nikita

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@novaskyy, okay (: I was just wondering. Because if this is the case I'm going to help her find a support group since she struggles with it badly. I just wasn't sure. I had no clue she was even pregnant because she was still smoking and everything :/

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sparklymama

Autumn

it's hard to tell when someone is being truthful especially if they put so much emphasis on something out can almost feel like an attention factor but just approach with compassion and tell her I hate that you're still hurting what would be helpful?

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novaskyy

Arii

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

How far along was she

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royalty

Nikita

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@sparklymama, exactly. And that's what I was wondering. I have a big heart and want to help everyone. But I've started noticing a lot of people aren't always good you know ? And thank you !(:

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royalty

Nikita

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@novaskyy, honestly she's never said how far along she was when she miscarried all she would say is it was a boy and she named him Braxton.

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novaskyy

Arii

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

Hmmmm in honesty that would spark red flags every mother I know states how far along they were and everything they even post pics dies she mention the day she lost him or the time she had him it should be considered his birthday if she mentions it

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novaskyy

Arii

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

I know because I'm apart of a mommy group who all have lost their child and that's commonly what I see

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royalty

Nikita

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@novaskyy, nope >.< nothing that's why I was wondering. Because I couldn't understand.

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royalty

Nikita

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@novaskyy, she's never posted ultrasounds or anything. Literally only the fact the it was a boy and his name was Braxton Tyler.

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novaskyy

Arii

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

Yea sorry sounds sketchy before did she say she was pregnant before her miscarriage

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royalty

Nikita

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@novaskyy, nope. She never really said anything until Recently. When I got pregnant and a couple of our friends got pregnant

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novaskyy

Arii

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

Yeah that sounds sketchy

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marinarose

Marina

Мама сына-младенца

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who was questioning this!

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royalty

Nikita

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@marinarose, oh yeah. I didn't want to be rude or anything to her about it. But I had my feelings. I'd feel like a complete douche if I told her what vibes I got from her and it was true.

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marinarose

Marina

Мама сына-младенца

She's known for lying for attention though so of course people would question it you know.

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royalty

Nikita

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@marinarose, oh yeah. I know :/ it just puts people in an awkward position.

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