I've lost 20 pounds since I delivered and that was only 12 days ago. I feel great
I really don't know. all I did was pump for a while, my diet has not changed at all. kinda concerns me that I've lost that much in that short amount of time

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
it's barely been a week and as soon as I gave birth my tummy was back to it was before and now I look thinner than I did pretty pregnancy. no change in diet or anything. I only gained 22 pounds through my whole pregnancy so I'm thinking it was all just baby weight and fluids.