My 10 month old had never been a good sleeper but here lately it's gotten worse. She sleeps in her…

My 10 month old had never been a good sleeper but here lately it's gotten worse. She sleeps in her crib but wakes up at least every 2 hours. And now at around 2-3 in the morning she doesn't want to go back in her crib. That's a good 2 hour fight. My husband wil not do the cry it out method so we r trying the fading. But that's just seems to make him think it's ok to do anything and now she knows what to do to get him to come and pick her up. If I go in there I can usually just lay her back down but then she's back up in and hour wanting daddy. Idk what to do anymore. HELP!