how stupid can someone be?? asked the father to start helping out with buying some supplies for Taliyah for before she's born and he seems to think you wait until the baby is born to buy stuff!!! Not to mention before that he thought I was asking him to help me get stuff for myself for my apartment!! it's like I can very much supply myself thank you very much!!!!
I then offered for him to come to the following ultrasound if he would like and he made me out to be the bad one!!! Said I was targeting him by asking if he wanted to come.
got into a huge argument with him because he says I'm refusing to answer his questions about how things are going with the baby.... he only asked me if it was a girl and how the vital signs were..... at the moment I was only 14 weeks so I didn't know the gender and they didn't mention about how the vital signs were and I even told him that..... it's like I'm not refusing to answer your questions.... you asked once and I answered you.... that was the only time you asked and that was it.....
now he's threatening to take me to court cause he seems to want full custody....
sorry but there's no way in hell your gonna be getting full custody of my daughter..... all you do is smoke and drink and you don't even have a place to live...
I have changed my whole life since the day I found out I was pregnant with this miracle. I'm getting a 2 bedroom and I have already gotten a few things for her.
I will fight for my whole life to keep her with me and even if it means keeping her away from you, I will do it!
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I understand that for religions or cultures but in this case right now it's just me buying stuff for her so I asked him to help and he basically refused because she's not even born yet... now it's this big argument and he wants full custody.... when all his money goes to weed and beer..... when we were together there was no food in the house.... so I really don't want him getting full custody....
like my money goes to food, my phone bill and buying some things for Taliyah. and I still have some left over if I want to get myself a small something as a treat.
lots of people actually wait until after the baby comes to buy things .. for some cultures/religions, it's bad luck to buy anything prior. Not saying he has a valid reason to act this way .. but just letting you know ...
it's been all through text :/ I've only heard from him twice since we broke up... it's just stressful.... like I've been trying so hard for my little girl and working so hard for her to have such a good life when she comes into this world and it's like he's just not even bothering.... like who waits till the baby's born to buy stuff?!
@chelsea09.01.17, Just focus on you and baby.. the court looks at the best interest of the child so don't worry about fro (family resource office) just go to the that office on Elgin St. I think that's the court house its been a while. You can get free legal advice. Keep all messages and emails... emails are preferred. 😉
keep receipts etc.. let him contribute how he want.. make sure you tell him to purchase items necessary for delivery. items for baby bag. car seat .. all the other stuff can come afterwards.. like we purchased major items and received s good amount for shower. I don't know gender so we will wait till after baby born to purchase more clothing etc..