I am married and I respect it. but I will have to choose baby. a man can be yours today, and gone tomorrow no matter how great you feel a marriage may be. your kids are forever. I cannot imagine not being a mom. my grandma lived a full filled life with kids, grandkids, and great grand kids. my uncle lost his wife and he was heart broken. he had his three daughters as a reminder of his love. he remarried. as much as he loved her he said regardless a significant other is replaceable. children can never be replaced
@stashinavy thank you 👏🏾 that's all Imma say
Marriage!!!! Marriage is not just a piece of paper. This is one of the reasons why soooo many women have problems with their mother in laws. The kids will leave, n Bc they didn't invest in a good relationship (which was sure aka marriage Bc they thought it was a piece of paper) they become parasites in their children's/sons life when they leave the nest!!! I can attest to this that when my kids are gone it will be me n my husband!!!! He is my forever becauSe God ordained it that way!!!! N I will be happy letting my kids go when they come of age n not being a pest in their lives interfering in their personal lives Bc my life was pathetic n I never invested in my forever!!!
Mhmmm I have mixed thoughts about this. So it's saying if I chose baby I don't get to have a man in general ??? Cause like the lady said above your children leave the nest and all you'll have is your SO.
well i said marriage is just a piece of paper with benefits b/c so many people get married and divorced after so many years. id have marriage taking from me and still have my better half with out that title through the gov't before having the opportunity of carrying and expanding my eggs into the world yea theres adoption but its not the same as your very own. i couldnt imagine not having my son right now and my other half right there still by my side telling me he'll never leave me and we working every problem out. dont need marriage to stay together
That's cute in all but Where in the bible does it say marriage is a piece of paper ? @karlavzqz because last time I checked Marriage is of God he created marriage & its values The government makes u get a Marriage license because that is the law.
Baby.
No love can compare to the love you have between you and your baby, true fact that i love my SO with all ive got, he's my other half but the very first touch i had with my daughter, the first look, the first everything its like she took charge of my entire heart. 💕
i agree with marriage being a piece of paper, my SO and i arent married and have a baby, we dont need a piece of paper to prove our love is true. we live together, we sleep together, we share our love together every day of the the many days we've been together, we do things a married coulpe would do, whats the difference? we dont have that piece of paper proving that we are together, marriage can wait well, for us. ✋
@babyattmore, yep! I take the bible & its teachings very seriously. And I come from a family of successful marriages. My parents are married, grandparents, aunts and uncles. And so on... I've always viewed marriage as an important step in life. We're very family orientated.
Your taking the words straight from my mouth @elainaelise I see u understand the biblical teachings on marriage. That's something my husband & I studied before we got married I kid you not.
@babyattmore, right. And true your love for your child is different from your husbands, but at the end of the day your child will grow up and depart from you. Your husband is there for a lifetime. If you guys work out problems rather than run from them. (Generally speaking)
Baby. I don't even care to get married. I know a couple that has been together for 25 years, 3 kids and never been married. I'm okay with that.
Exactly because I know for a fact I didn't get married for no piece of paper & some benefits if that was the case I would be married to the richest man in America believe that @elainaelise
@babyattmore, agreeing that marriage is not just a piece of paper. I'd take marriage no baby. A forever best friend, travel buddy, and lover. You can't just walk away from a marriage. It has more meaning.
Marriage is not a piece of paper @tecia1 ....
I Love my husband. I think marriage is very important . But......... I never knew what real love was until I met my son .
baby no marriage. no love greater than a child's love plus marriage is just a piece of paper worth benefits it don't make a promise of forever
@karlavzqz exactly! !!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE THIS POST