Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
My husband says I let myself go... My legs have changed.. Im chubbier.. I already know this so why put it in my face like that?! He says If I make myself look better He will buy me a new bikini. I dont look good enough now?.. 😢
octobermom14·
Мама сына-младенца
@prettyperly82, girl i think everyone has problems with their in laws is rare who doesnt. we been together for six years also his mom want us to stay at her place i told her no because your daughter don't like me i rather be somewhere im okay besides im going to become a new mother i want to be okay with my son. since then his mom changed with me because i didn't follow what she wants. now me and his sister are okay because she asked forgiveness now that shes a mother changing her act. there so many things that has happened over the year with them. I stand up for myself they are not walking all over me no more. I can't tell they don't like that its okay like my SO say don't worry about them just about us Three.
@charlottesmami 👪·
Мама дочки-младенца
@octobermom14, i dont is jusy i live under their roof so i have to constantly listen to them talk about me... and @tylene i am trust me my baby girl is my world and like u i am getting teraphy because i have so much emotions piled up inside me... we been toguether for almost 6 years and he has not even poped the question ... i just dnt know if he even loves me anymore
Lori·
Hey lady don't be hard on yourself. You should feel lucky that you still have her with you. Your situation is like mine,but alittle opposite. His mom don't like or either his whole family which I don't care. I only care about my son. Which right now I don't have my son with me because my ex baby daddy and his mom trying to put a child support on me. Is not fair and that's low. Me and ex baby daddy we arugement a lot cause of stupidity dumb lie stuff. To tell you the truth I would never ever hurt or lay my hand on my son that I love to death. He my world in one. I can't lived without my son. I'm sad depressed. That's why I need to help myself to be a better mom with counseling.
octobermom14·
Мама сына-младенца
don't worry about what others say in the end is not worth it. just worried about your baby and yourself. your family is your man, baby and yourself. take care