Need a quick vent.
I am feeling like a crazy person. Im over my due date and have a c section scheduled for this upcoming Wednesday since my dr won't induce me because of my previous c section (my first wAs breech) . Husband has already missed a few days of work this week because the jobs were too far away if I was to go into labor and heaven help me with all the people with good intentions but checking in on me everyday to see if I had the baby. Especially people like my own mother. Like id forget to tell her? I've had people text me telling me how I'm inconveniencing their schedule by not having her yet 😑 like what the hell would make you feel ok sending that to someone. Sorry me not giving birth is harming you in anyway. Or my favorite, texting me what your friend told you to tell me to do or what I'm not doing right to have this baby. I pay good money to my dr who I see weekly so I don't really need some random ass woman I've never met giving me advice on my body when I pay and see a dr regularly who knows my body and needs.'I'm already starting to get frustrated with myself/ my body.. I don't need friends/family reminding me every ten seconds I still am pregnant. Feeling a lot of pressure and there is nothing I can do about it. If baby isn't ready.. Baby isn't ready.. Really really wanted a vbac. Going over your due date is more stressful than I imagined😕 I really hope my body kicks itself into gear soon and I can have this baby vaginally before Wednesday
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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Is it easy to get food stamps? People keep telling me to take advantage of it but i really don't need it 🤔
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
@lexilou_p, hang in there! Going over my due date was one of the most stressful things ever. Nobody understands that stress until they have experienced it!