LADIES WORKING IN THE HOME OR OUT OF THE HOME GUESS WHAT!! WE ARE ALL MOMS AND ITS ALL HARD WORK! think of it this way if i had a garden i would WORK in it weeding fertilizing and taking care of my garden by putting WORK into it everyday to get the vegetables as the end result. this is the same with sahm and there are pros and cons on both sides! my husband may pay for the seeds and the land its on and the things i need to take care of it but that does nothing without all the WORK that is unpaid that needs to go into it. so maybe i as a sahm dont have a "paycheck" but my husbands paycheck is OURS 💯 we earned it together by taking care of buisness and working together to do what we do. i dont for one minute think anyone supports me and takes care of me. we support and take care of each other! so yes we pay the bills we take care of our home our kids fill the fridge and everything else together! i just do behind the scenes work and he gets the money so i can do what needs to be done and that all counts! both sides of the spectrum are equally filled with pros cons good bad and if it works for the family its all good. i wouldnt say one is better or worse. its still WORK no matter how you look at it!