any tips on how to be a single parent while the cheating spouse is shacking up with a nasty female and playing house with her and playing daddy to her kids? I know I can't tell my one year old daughter that daddy is not coming back (his stuff is still here cause he hasn't come got it, he doesn't know that I know and IDK when he plans to show up and she's supposedly carrying his son and is due in 3 months and the kid ain't gaining weight it's sitting at a pound, but there could be 2-4 possible fathers and they are naming him Corbin Frances Campbell and that's the name we picked out, but now he's not home and I'm not supposed to know that he's cheating but he fails to realize he's been seen publicly with her) I'm so hurt and pissed off and sad... he's wasting my time and three years worth of memories for a thot... that's why in two months I'm leaving Tulsa without him... but I need some positive thoughts and vibes ladies cause I'm scared.
He has no intention of coming back to you. He may come for his stuff (although I know people who just bought new stuff). But he's done in the relationship. If you have proof file for what you need- divorce, child support. I'm sorry you're going through this
he's left us sitting here flat out broke and I'm so grateful for my brother and sister in law for staying with me during this difficult time and I'm donating plasma to pay for her diapers and wipes and Friday I'm going to try to get hired on at where my sister in law Christina works and it's ten dollars an hour and weekly pay of 400 it's the temp agency and full time it's 800 every two weeks.
Wow it's so unrealistic what men do for a hoe... you need to confront him like @bonniesue said! You need to think about your daughter, she should always be your number 1 motivation... good luck momma
Why haven't you confronted him? I think it's not that he thinks you don't know he just does not care. You're stronger than you know. Your child is so young you have no to decide how you raise her. Are you going to let her see you be cheated on and treated poorly or are you going to be strong and independent?