slight venting...my best friend has to be the most inconsiderate, rude, entitled and rotten woman…
slight venting...my best friend has to be the most inconsiderate, rude, entitled and rotten woman I've ever met! I've literally never been sober around her. Now that I'm expecting I've been 100% sober and doing well. Now, she moved to Myrtle Beach this past Sunday. She's finishing school and has no transportation. My hubby nor other friends like her. In 3 days I've noticed how extremely rotten and entitled she is. it blows me because I haven't been in her presence in 2 yrs but I don't remember it being this bad. She expects me to jump when she needs to go somewhere or needs homework help and doesn't understand that we're building our own lives for our little. Tuesday I was far from home with hubby having lunch and she called and said her meal plan didn't kick in and she was hungry. I told her I understand but after lunch he doesn't get off until 5 and I'm not driving back and forth. When I finally got there she cussed and fussed about how terrible of a friend I was because she was just so unbearably hungry (wanted to push her ass into traffic) Just ungrateful! Yesterday she got pissed because I wouldn't take her to office Max to print stuff but she wouldn't chip in for gas. literally cussed me out in my living room and again on the car ride back to her apartment because I told her I wasn't going to help her with anything else because she's a spoiled inconsiderate ass bitch. I try not to get worked up. Every time I get frustrated, my lower abdomen pains me and I feel nauseous. I feel like dealing with her is stressing me out but knowing her she's going to start something ridiculous when I try to end the friendship and I can't even roll a blunt to deal with her! and what really makes me feel bad is I'm literally the only person she knows here and I know that she does need the help smh....rant over
Stephanie H.·
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Honestly your health mentally and emotionally are more important. You never realized she was never your friend because of the state that you were always in with her before getting pregnant. Now your eyes are open. Just let her go! It may hurt but it won't hurt long! At this point she's not worth the stress, pain, and possible bad side affects to your child. She needs tough love and you gotta show it. When she starts cussing, hang up or walk away. Simple as that. You should enjoy your pregnancy and family your building. Don't let a bitter, evil person make you the same way! Misery loves company. And trust me, you don't have the time, patience, or health to be that company. Time to put you first. The real you, the sober you!
Aaliyah·
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I totally agree with @nolans1stlove . it's not worth the stress.
Rebecca·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (12 нед.)
This is so sad. And doesn't sound like anyone I would even consider my friend. Not the type of person you want in your life or your baby's life. I also see my husband and I as a team, not that if he doesn't "care" for someone I kick them out of my life. Lol. But if I don't or he doesn't- we discuss it. And usually there are good reasons and it helps us to be on the same page. It doesn't sound like this person is being a FRIEND to you at all. And you seem to be being a great friend to her! I'm sorry you are being treated this way but you deserve better. Move on and enjoy your good friends ! ❤️ @nolans1stlove
Rebecca·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (12 нед.)
Sorry should have tagged @nikkim21 ! Sorry @nolans1stlove !!
lorraine·
thats not a friend. she usesnu n bitches when she doesnt get her way. when ur baby comes she will be even worse. n u need to be happy with ur man and ur baby. she cant be getting in the way. she needs to grow up and appreciate any help. sounds like if u need help she wouldnt be around. until she actually learns her lesson cut her off.
Maleeya Nicole·
I understand that it's not a healthy relationship, but I honestly don't have to cut people off often. I'm always very assertive and a spit fire but I don't have the energy to be confrontational all the time @nolans1stlove @atw2016 @usafwife @lorraine2014 when I'm around her now I feel drained and agitated but I do often think back to every good experience we've had together. It really sucks because I'd rather her understand where I'm coming from and all of the changes happening and just change or adapt to everything
Rebecca·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (12 нед.)
@nikkim21, I totally get that :) I hope you guys can talk and work things out for sure! That is always a much better option! I have a friend who her and I are in a similar situation- not exactly the same as yours. But we have talked and talked and talked and sadly it didn't work for us. We remain "friends" and I will ALWAYS be there if she really needs me but I just can't be that everyday friend, it wasn't healthy. And as much as I wanted to help her - it was hurting me and my family - So I'll be there if she really needs me, but I just can't do it anymore. I have cried many many tears over it. We were friends for many years and have such amazing memories. But the person she has become is just not healthy for me or my family. So I get it , I really do. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this ❤️ @nikkim21