**not pregnancy related**

A week ago today, I very well could have lost my husband, my best friend, and the father to my kids.. A vehicle pulled out into traffic thinking that they could beat the oncoming vehicles. She never saw my husband on the Harley. I got to the scene of the accident to find him in the back of the ambulance with blood all over his face and arms. After a lot of convincing, I was finally able to get him to go the ER where he had a head CT and X-rays of his shoulder and hand. He was talking and acting totally normal, so the kids and I went to get us all a bite to eat. When I came back, we asked a nurse if he could go ahead and eat. She told him yes. Then another nurse rushed in and told him to stop eating immediately. I asked if his hand was broken and if it need surgery, she told me no, that it was much worse. He has a small brain bleed that potentially will need surgery and that they are transferring him to a bigger hospital. My heart shattered. Kylah was a mess. They rushed him by ambulance to the hospital were we spent the night. The neurologist told us that they see this type of bleed pretty commonly. And that he should be fine, & gave us symptoms to watch for. They couldn't prescribe him any pain killers because it could mask those symptoms. The entire time we were there, I couldn't sleep. I had to keep the closest eye on him. I feared the worse. All I wanted to do was call the people who pulled out in front of him and ask if it was worth it for me to have possibly lost my husband and my kids to possibly grow up without their father... But he is home, still obviously sore, but alive & home. The point of this is to please watch for motorcycles. Pulling quickly across oncoming traffic to get you home quicker isn't worth a life...