stop battling there is no fight if you put down the sword

Thanks you @sktraum

Guys like that never change. Ever. Ever. It only gets worse honestly. I gave my ex husband the benefit of the doubt, with each year that passed I made excuses for him and eventually lost all hope. I stayed 15 years only to realize I lost myself in all that time I gave him a chance to be a husband and a dad. I'm much happier by myself. It was a healthy decision for me mentally. I do wish I would have done something about it earlier so the scars wouldn't be so deep but it takes strength within and that only comes from God. Good luck momma. U and ur children deserve to live a long full happy life.

He doesn't help out, throws things in my face like things I don't pay for. He's been off work for months and can't stay up during the day stays up all night. Has friends and fun all the time. I'm over here working 34 hours a week doing the house work and taking care of my daughter. He does go back to work soon but I'll be here by myself because he won't be close for work to come home.

whats wrong