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lizzib00
Elizabeth·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I need advice! Okay so I live with my stepmother and 10 year old sister turning 11 years old in a month. She has gone through puberty and is super hormonal even with me. I live with her with my baby and boyfriend we pay rent too. So today I had to go out to do a pre hiring drug test and have my daughter see her grandma on her fathers side since he needed to pick up things at his mothers house. My sister I told her since 3pm we will be leaving at 4:30pm and won't be back til 9-10pm because we have a lot to get done. She basically told me no i would rather stay home alone and sleep watch tv. The house is safe we lock the doors and live in the suburbs. Well my stepmother is in Vegas currently and at 8:45pm begins to Bitch me out for living my sister home alone saying things like I don't care bout her safety when one should I drag her out of the house with me having her complain the whole time she is out with me. My little sister basically acts like a baby and saids being home some is scary when I legit told her we won't be home till 9-10pm we were home by 9:30pm. It is also thundering too but we were driving through it and she has a cell phone. Well basically when I get home my sister gives me her phone and she bitches out at me doesn't give me the chance to say anything just screams hysterically on the line. I hang up on her. Also we were bout 5-8 min from the house I asked my sister to preheat the oven it takes 10 minutes for it to even pre heat and I left pizza on top of the counter so we could all eat it when I get back home. Well she calls back my sister puts her on speaker she tells me I'm disrespectful and that I don't treat my sister like my sibling that I don't care for her and basically kicks us out. So in one day I have to move me bf and my 5 week olds baby stuff. I have always cared for my sister and took care of her I'm not gonna drag her out with us when all she does is get upset. But if she doesn't like being at home and knows we have things to do I can't drop all my errands to stay home and babysit too. She acts like a baby at 10 years old and always clings to my stepmom I'm not being ridiculous but I lost my mother at 12 and never got along with my dad growing up. I grew up fast when I was young and even knew how to take care 3 young siblings at the age of 10. I have 7 siblings too I am very upset currently and have to pack tonight with little sleep. The oven I knew how safe it would be if she preheated it and that the house would not burn down I kept those things in mind. I have always cared for all my siblings being the oldest but my stepmother acts like her daughter is all special when my other 3 siblings and me don't have our own mother alive! I'm done with this!

24.08.2016
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gcpaschal
Gwendolyn Paschal·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@lizzib00, well good luck and you're right you don't need the drama either way.

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lizzib00
Elizabeth·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@ladyace, thank you!

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ladyace
Tae Lee·Мама троих детей

Good luck darlin' just don't stress over her shenanigans. You've asked she copped an attitude so it her own fault. @lizzib00

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lizzib00
Elizabeth·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@ladyace, yea I'm pretty much done she's not my real mother I don't care anymore I'm ready to move out and just live somewhere without drama.

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lizzib00
Elizabeth·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@gcpaschal, honestly I'm already packing up we're moving out tomorrow I'm pretty much done she asked my other sisters boyfriend to pick my little sister tonight and I'm done with this drama I don't need it anymore and I understand where your coming from maybe I should have forced her ass to come with me but sometimes I'm way to nice with her.

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ladyace
Tae Lee·Мама троих детей

Honestly I think she overdue for a pop. She shouldn't be disrespectful towards you at all.

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gcpaschal
Gwendolyn Paschal·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I wouldn't kick you out but I would be pissed. I'm sorry but I would be. She doesn't run shit. Her little ass would be silent and with me. I'm just glad everyone is safe. Mom just needs to cool of hopefully.

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lizzib00
Elizabeth·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@gcpaschal, honestly she bitches and moans almost everytime and I was in a rush with a baby we have to leave right after she eats and I breastfeed mainly I knew we would be back in under 6 hours and that she had a cell phone to call me that's why I felt comfortable with her being home especially since I would have to force her to go in her pjs since she didn't change either.

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gcpaschal
Gwendolyn Paschal·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I would have never left a 11 year old in the house by herself. She's not an adult. I don't care if she does bitch and moan, she's coming with me.

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marcial_naomi
Naomi·Мама дочки (8 лет)

Wow wow that is crazy what the heck!!! your sis took it over board big time, but that is why you do not live with family because any day they could kick you out without caring. I feel for you I hope she changes her mind

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