So how is my husband going to do a 10:00 feeding, if he can't stay away past 9:30? Also thanks husband for waking up see be do the feeding and not even offer. What a douche!! Sorry to vent on here but he is making me pissed off right now!
Right. And its hard for me cause I am pregnant all over again and I am tired and I have a 8 month old that wants to wake up in the middle of the night. So, I am tired, pass tired.
The messed up part is every night he says he is going to help with that feeding. He has never done a 10:00 feeding! This is why I don't feel bad for sleeping in on the weekends! I do the 3-4 am and make him do the 7 and I stay in bed until 9 if they let me. @mrsjefferson
Ever have a bad gut feeling about your husband ? Like he doing something he shouldn’t or whatever ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so my husband wants to feed are baby but the thing is that I will be breastfeeding so idk how it would work. he was thinking that when he wants to feed him he would give him formula but I just want my baby to have breast milk. so then he said why don't you pump your milk out and I'll feed it to him and i thought that would be the best thing but then I'm scared that my baby will get use to the bottle. I need help idk what to do because my husband really wants to feed him :/ and we need to come up...
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
I do understand that my husbands job is important and he is the bread winner.....blah blah blah but I need a little more from you too! I work full time, come home, make dinner, prepare for the baby and I for the next day all with 5 hours of sleep. The sad part is during the week I am in the spare room with the baby so he has no excuse for not having a decent nights sleep.