ugh my grandparents are in town so they took me and my babies shopping .. normally I love shopping .... when its for my kids.. I haven't bought anything let alone clothes for my self in almost 3 years.(my grandma said I need nice clothes not big sloppy ones) which I kinda agreed with but once I started looking at clothes I legit almost broke down in tears.. I saw what size jeans and t-shirts I needed and I was almost in tears... I feel so fat and unattractive and just gross I need to start losing weight but its so hard!! anyone have any tips ? I have like no self control so staying away from the junk is gonna be really hard. I also can't afford a gym or anything like that.
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it would help if I had support at home.. but I don't.. my fiance doesn't really care about anything. when I tried to breast feed my son I was in tears because it hurt so bad and he didn't support me or tell me to keep going he just said well then stop... then when I got post pardum all he said was oh. I was upset and the time and he said what's your problem. now that I told him.I feel unattractive and as big as a cow he said shut up. and I don't care. so its hard when I don't get support because I know I'm gonna quit doing it.. @bianca_rose
I feel you. Guess we have to figure out a way to do it if we really want to change it 😐
I have 2 and a 10 week old puppy:/ so I don't get like any free time whatsoever @bianca_rose
Your baby is younger than mine, the exhaustion is even worse when they're younger
@bianca_rose, exactly how I feel I just wanna sit and relax myself.
Ugh it's a terrible feeling. I still wear these 2 maternity dresses I have. I'm trying to get the motivation to go down in the basement and run on the treadmill after the baby goes to sleep, but that's literally the last thing I want to do when I finally have me time.
@bianca_rose, I don't even have any clothes other then basketball shorts.. I wear my fiances clothes most of the time... I just wanna stay in bed all day never leave I get so embarrassed going out in public..
I'm having the same issue, I feel so disgusting when I get dressed (in like the 2 outfits that even fit) it's horrible
@jazmin805, this is the biggest I have ever been ! I'm a size 16 an extra large shirt and a 44dd bra I feel disgusting ..
last year i was a size 6-9!!! now im a 15:' -(
Wow, that's terrible