Anyone else find this annoying?

You have one kid and people are like "so when are you going to try for another?" or "now you gotta try for a boy/girl!"

and then when you have a second, they're like "now you gotta try for a boy/girl" or "are you going to have another?"

It is absolutely annoying and rude because they don't know your situation. I had one person say to me after I said we were done having anymore ,"we'll see about that!"

And there's the ignorance. I had my tubes cut and burned so you will not see about that.