then i would just approach him one more time and ask for a heart to heart talk...I hope he comes around because nobody deserves to feel that way..it's awful enough that we're all big and pregnant...but it's not right to ever feel neglected in any given case.. keep me updated!!!!

@justine_kim, we have watched porn in the past he knows it doesn't bother me at all and we have a toy that we do use..

if all else fails, give him some time and space to come around... dont show him you're miserable...men get turned on by confidence... just remember you're beautiful(you really are 😍) and keep your head high when you walk around him... 😌

tell him to show you that he wants you... dont attack him & embarrass him for watching porn...maybe approach him like "what can i do to gain your attention? what turns you on?" go to a sex store together and just walk around! spice it up?

😟 im so sorry to hear... you need to approach him & really tell him how you feel even if he gets upset.make your point be known. are you not into trying new things with him? like maybe watching porn with him one time to see if maybe that'll turn him on? of course it's not for everybody so if it definitely bothers you, dont even try it... what if u were to get a toy or something and use it in front of him?lol that might jumpstart him into getting his shit together if he sees you pleasuring yourself another way. 😕

@justine_kim, @mrshodges

the only thing he gets afraid of his hurting her, and that was when she was little

I get in bed naked and try to "cuddle" leggitly move his hand or lay just right and nothing... multiple times.. I have caught him laying in bed after I have gone to sleep messing around with porn and it hurts so bad.. like he goes and spends forever in the bathroom and I never know what it really is about.. and if I say something to him he gets mad and is like you know I want you!

I felt like that too. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. My man said he just didn't want to hurt me since I always complain about the way my body feels. Maybe thats whats going on with yours.

have u tried putting some moves on him first?? flirting...dressing sexy or just initiating anything?😯