I need some tips mommas. my bf and my sex life is beyond pitiful. I'm not a very spontaneous person…
I need some tips mommas. my bf and my sex life is beyond pitiful. I'm not a very spontaneous person and he makes me feel like shit (unintentionally of course) by constantly saying out sex life sucks. I have tried to offer suggestions such as more foreplay (especially on me because right now there is zero!) but he doesn't seem to be willing to even touch me down there. it's always (sorry for TMI) handiwork to get him hard, blow job then climb aboard and sex then done. don't get me wrong I "finish" every time but every time I suggest a change in routine he ignores me. what should I do
Dakota·
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Stop asking and just take control....
Rikki·
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@dcb012, I'm wierd though.... I am a very meek woman and don't really have a sex drive of my own since getting pregnant.
Dakota·
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But when you do start tell him what you want and don't budge on it until he starts.... Meek or not if you want the relationship to work you may have to go outside of your regular comfort zone...
ηίɕί🌷·
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I know how you feel! I'm super quiet about sex stuff too. And I have zero sex drive right now. So he usually just doesn't get any. I feel so bad about it though.
Rikki·
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@nicipicky, I have terrible performance anxiety when it comes to sex. I know it's silly but I always feel like I'm doing something wrong
Rikki·
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@nicipicky, I have zero confidence. negative confidence if that's even possible. I work myself up to the point where I just give up...
ηίɕί🌷·
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I understand that completely!! I have no confidence ever. and sex has always been difficult for me and painful. so it's really hard for me to want to even try. I wish it was easier. Sometimes just talking to your SO makes a big difference. We don't talk about sex very often but when we do, I always feel better. @nightdaughter