my husband has been begging me to try for one more child in the next 5 years. I was seriously against it at first as I only wanted 2, but now that kirk is born, I reconsidered and have agreed. he also is going to help me get more healthy so that my body can withstand a pregnancy since I don't seem to carry well. our goal is for both of us to become more healthy and then try for our final child. so yay us lol