Mommies PLEASE HELP!! My 3month old daughter cries every time I leave the room, she doesn't allow me to do anything, She…

@sunflowerfields, @mrsthig thanks ladies, I feel better talking about it, because I feel like I'm going crazy and individuals at my church made me feel bad that I said her crying drives me insane

That's why, it sounds like she's not that familiar with him enough, it sucks cause it seems he works over time

@winnie633, I try to let her self soothe but when I let her cry, she screams louder and louder until I return in the room.

@mrsthig, thank you, I didn't know that

@sunflowerfields, she doesn't spend time with him, like she should. I'm with her all day and when he get home he hold for a hour and that's it 😑

My baby did the same until my mom said that we spoiled him when everytime he cried we ran to him, she told me to leave him to cry just do it gradually or we'll never get anything done....leave her for 5 minutes then go to her then10 minutes and keep lengthening the time, just pass by her let her know ur there but don't pick her up. Soon she'll learn to self soothe

Just FYI for when 6m ROOOLLLLS around lol

It's a phase they start going through. 3m starts strange danger & 6m is separation anxiety both of which can cause extra clinginess to mom

Is she around him a lot ?

maybe try giving your husband one of your shirts and have him hold her in it? She will need to learn that mommy will only be gone for a little while and will be back. How long does she cry for when you leave the room? do you ever just let her cio?

@sunflowerfields, she wasn't like this the first two months, this start about two weeks ago, I really hope it ends soon

@amaperalta03, that's ideal for a short period of time. I can't wear her constantly, and her father needs to be able to soothe her when I go back to work

I agree with the comment above, that's what I had to do it won't last , eventually it stops

Get a baby wrap and wear her