Melissa
marinesrodeo9394
Melissa·Мама сына-младенца

Ok it doesn't matter what branch you or your spouse serves in. What matters is the fact that you/ they are serving. Which is a huge commitment and makes for a tough life. Being a spouse of a service member is hard! Especially whenever it was my dream to join but I didn't get to. it's hard because your always being taken away from the ones you love. You don't get a say. And you do it for the freedom of every one els. Even those ungrateful for their freedom. So please, DO NOT JUDGE ME if I'm having a rough day, and feel the need to vent. I'm human, I have feelings too. Yes, I have to be strong, I have no choice but I can still admit when I am at least feeling weak. ✌ I do not take my life for granted. We do not get a ton of $$$. We live from pay check to pay check most the time and that's just with paying bills. Military family's have the same struggles just as others. Sometimes, worse. It isn't as a forgiving lifestyle as it sounds on the outside. So if you've never lived it. Don't criticize it.

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marinesrodeo9394
Melissa·Мама сына-младенца

@krjmommy0509, I see your active duty!! I wanted to active duty so bad but ... Right before I was gonna leave, found out I was pregnant and couldn't go. But I am so proud of my husband and the accomplishments he has made in the marines!

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babynessa
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I've lived it and it's tough. Constantly having your SO gone and only getting to talk to them at current times. It's one of the hardest things anyone would have to do and people that haven't lived it don't really understand it. Stay strong.

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