People kill me talking about "your child is going to do this" or "he's going to catch this" or "he's…

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 AMEN!

There is NOTHING WRONG with your parenting. Those people just weren't raised right. They lack basic manners for one thing because it's incredibly rude to wish negative outcomes on a child or question their parents.

@tayek problem is... its my mom. she barely raised me and my brother and I don't wanna keep her grandkids from her, but damn. she let's him do whatever he wants, she thinks him running around the house being hardheaded, cussing and tearing up stuff is freaking hilarious.I discipline him for it, she's yelling at me. But the minute he does it in public, she's mad at me. He breaks something that meant something to her then it's not funny anymore and she's mad at me. and her friends are just as bad. we were out one day, and her friend went off on me and told me I was too strict and he's going to hate me because I wouldn't let him run all over the restaurant. Then she has a fit because I said he can't have coffee and she gave it to him anyway. Her and my mom said I was totally disrespectful because I told her about herself

I need to parent the best way u see fit. My SO and I have 6 kids we have a huge house and r kids range from 15 to 4 and let me tell ya u wouldn't know we have that many kids to walk in our home unless u look at the shoe pile by the door or u look in our dining room at our huge table. Our kids r well mannered at home and when we r out in public. Yes I get the occasional dirty look cause I'm not afraid to spank my children in public if they wanna misbehave but I also get a lot more complements from the older generation cause I'm not letting my kids walk all over me. I have similar problems with my mother but that's y she no longer gets to keep them over night, she's still allowed to c them but she knows my house my rules. I'm probably gonna really make her mad when I get ready to have this baby cause we aren't letting her watch the kids while I'm in the hospital she can't handle all of them but I really don't care at the end of the day I have to do what's best to keep my home and children in order and want my kids growing up to b respectable adults

*u

@lost041 she's pissed because my aunt will have Desmond when I have this baby. I'm like I'm terrified to leave him with you overnight just because of what she allows him to do when he's just with her for a few hours. he runs around the house doing whatever, while she sleeps. Plus I wanted her at the hospital with me because she works in the field. plus she always has to do my IV's and bloodwork

Mine aren't allowed candy or soda either, my family acts like child protective services should be called lol

@bianca_rose smh