A friend posted this how true . I loved every minute of my pregnancy but some friends on mine struggle to get pregnant and it's heartbreaking..
Please don't complain about your pregnancy symptoms. How much you're over your morning sickness, and sore boobs. How much you hate your back pain, and how much this pregnancy is making you feel miserable. From the moment you posted you were expecting, a person on your friends list liked it, might've even loved it, but secretly she cried while doing so. Some women are struggling to do the one thing nature intended for their bodies to do, and you complain about the one thing they cry for. Please be considerate about the women who are secretly fighting these battles on infertility, or struggling to have what you have. You might've gotten pregnant by accident, but she cannot get pregnant on purpose. Please copy and repost as your status to support women struggling with pregnancy! You never know which one of your friends it may be. ❤️
@mommyofweimies, I absolutely love your comment. I agree. We are human and we are going to complain about our aches and pains. Pregnancy is hard and we just want people to sympathize with us. We are always considerate towards those who have lost or who are unable to conceive.
As much as i love this i also feel torn. i too had my difficulties conceiving. i too had to hide my crying when friends or family enjoyed their pregnancies or baby announcements. i too have lost 2 babies that i will never be able to hold. After many many attempts to conceive and countless hours of over time and money that we didnt have to spend on conceiving, WE DID IT! Im 32 weeks pregnant with our double rainbow baby and we are over the moon excited. but just because i have suffered like many to get to this point doesn't mean that i dont feel the way most women do about pregnancy. pregnancy is tough on our bodies and mind and I think after all I've been through i deserve the right to complain about soreness or fatigue. Surely the lesson of this post shouldn't be dont express your feeling about your own pregnancy for fear that you will make another woman cry. But the lesson should more so be embrace your pregnancy the good and the bad, just remember that others have a hard time getting to the pains and swelling of pregnancy. As long as those that cant or have a hard time conceiving are acknowledged and that about thats what really matters.
thanks @shylamarie i agree!