@ajandlilysmommy, yea that's how it is for me to, the more I try and hope for the best

yeah I am in constant stress trying to make him man up and he just has every dang excuse its mentally tiring

@ajandlilysmommy, I know that is very frustrating to have to do everything on your own, I don't want to do it but I know that's what I have to do because he can't get it together, so sad to let something go so easily. I try not to be sad about it but all have to think about my daughter. Sorry that your going through this, I wish it was easier for us you know

Men are like that this is my second child and I cant count on one hand how many times has purchased our kids something with his own money or did something for them. so honestly yes you can do it by yourself but I completely understand you don't want to.. Cause no matter what if he is drifting apart 24/7 that baby depends on you and I took it very hard trying to get him to payattention to the kids while my focus should have been on my son to the fullest. now I am about to have two children and I am fully understanding if this baby comes and when September passes by Im doing this on my own I have been waiting four years for my significant other to man up.

Idk why men are like that, a baby needs things like to sleep in and be carried in. Hopefully but I really done see improvement because he says he's going to buy stuff but then make excuses up, I don't get it

@zuri964, i had the same problem with my hubby and he explained to me that its hard for him to buy something for a baby that isnt physically here yet. hes all excited and wanting to buy everyone once the baby is born but i feel pregnancy just is confusing to him. we get to feel the baby grow while they deal with our hormones xD give it time and see if it changes once baby is born?