So my ex asked about seeing the kids tomorrow. I was going to until my sister-in-law made me realize that my 5 year old is on this thing where she asks EVERYONE if they missed her and he's a liar and it would break her heart if she knew he hasn't even asked about them until he wants something from me. I told him I'm not going to meet with him because I can't have him see them one week then go weeks without seeing him. I cannot hurt my children the way he has hurt me... He doesn't ask unless he thinks he's getting something in return.
great choice. Protect your babies from getting their hearts broken.. as sad as it is you have to do what's best for you and your babies.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Rant. I have a co worker (male) who is a little on the weird side, I used to speak to him normally, until two of my co workers told me that he would always ask for me whenever I was not working.. this completely creeped me out, so now I keep my conversations short/ distant .. he asked me once while we were both in the brake room why I was acting uncomfortable around him, but when he asked me this he said it with a creep smile as if he would find pleasure if I responded with "yes I'm uncomfortabl...
my SO is really mad at me :(
So i came home from visiting my mom and my SO is in the living room eating something i ask him what hes eating and he says candy i tell him to give me some and he points to my prenatal gummys , i had ripped out the sticker and i left them on the kitchen table soo i tell him they are my vitamins and he flips out hes soo mad at me i havent seen him this upset in a long time his acting like hes going to turn into a woman or his penis is going to shrink or something he...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
it hurts me to know he doesn't even care. He's not getting the chance to hurt them. He can say what he wants about me all day long but I'll be damned if I allow him to say or do anything to my babies. @jc2015